At Northwestern University’s 168th Commencement, the message to new graduates was clear: You’re ready — now go make your mark on the world.
“We’re counting on you to bring your big, gorgeous, different, unconventional, crazy, surprising, kind, innovative and unfamiliar ideas and selves,” said commencement speaker Sarah Jessica Parker, the award-winning actor, producer and entrepreneur. “It’s the deepest, most authentic parts of your true selves that will spark and sustain the ideas that will change the world.”
Believe in a ‘what if world’
In a heartfelt and thought-provoking speech to this year’s graduating Wildcats and their guests, she offered a series of “what ifs,” inspired by an actors’ rehearsal technique for exploring a character’s future.
What if you could maintain your individuality? What if you could continue to honor and nurture your curiosity? What if you could truly know that “to want” is a gift? What if you could keep being dreamers? What if you could distinguish the bad rules from the good ones?
As someone accustomed to challenging rules, Parker conceded to being grateful for the departure of some more traditional rules — like those used to define people according to gender, class, race or orientation — in our rapidly changing world. But she implored the graduates to hold onto one timeless, indisputable rule.

