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Class of 2025 treated to laughter, dancing and wisdom at the United Center

Steve Carell to Northwestern grads: “Kindness isn’t a weakness. It is a very potent strength”
In a packed United Center, with thousands also watching via the livestream, commencement speaker Steve Carell had the arena laughing, cheering and, at times, dancing as he addressed Northwestern’s Class of 2025.

The United Center was full of smiles — and lots of purple — at Northwestern University’s 167th Commencement on Sunday, with approximately 3,000 graduates and their beaming family members and friends in attendance as they celebrated a moment well-earned. 

With thousands also watching via the livestream, commencement speaker Steve Carell had the arena laughing, cheering and, at times, dancing as he addressed the graduates, telling them to be kind, avoid envy and to listen to those around them. Blending self-deprecating humor with advice for the students’ lives after graduation, Carell mixed short vignettes with jokes — and the occasional jab at his celebrity friends, including Northwestern alum and 2011 commencement speaker Stephen Colbert.

After heaping praise on Colbert, Carell said he was envious of his friend for being so talented and kind.

“In all honesty, I’m not jealous of Stephen Colbert,” Carell said to laughs from the crowd. “He is, in fact, a dear friend — for a shell of a man, he’s a great guy.”

Carell acknowledged that this generation of college students is experiencing unprecedented times.

“My kids are right around your age and it’s difficult for me to process just how much you’ve all experienced in your young lives,” said actor Carell, who is known for his roles in “The Morning Show,” “Despicable Me,” “Anchorman,” “The Office,” and, most recently, “The Four Seasons” on Netflix. “I feel your anxiety and your fear about the world around you. It’s heartbreaking to me. You’ve already had to overcome a lifetime’s worth of turmoil and uncertainty, and it doesn’t seem fair.”

In his opening remarks, Northwestern University President Michael Schill spoke about the critical contributions of universities amid growing challenges.

“You chose one of the greatest universities in the world so that you could learn from the greatest minds in an environment that prizes research and the search for truth,” he said. “We innovate, we discover cures to diseases, and we solve problems that pose a risk to the future of the planet. We contribute to art, culture, social mobility and progress and, most importantly, we educate you.”

Said undergraduate student speaker Clary Doyle: “At Northwestern I did not find faith in my ideas. Instead, I was challenged by my peers, pushed to reconsider my views about morality, and, importantly, I learned to be comfortable with doubt. And this is crucial because it is only if we consider that we may be wrong about some things that we could ever change our minds.”

It doesn’t hurt to be kind

In Hollywood, it doesn’t take much to be considered “nice,” Carell joked. “I embody a base line human decency, which, I believe, should not be celebrated, but expected,” he said. “Everyone should be at very least, ‘pretty nice.’”

The trick to being a decent human is to donate your time and/or money to a worthy cause and performing acts of service, Carell advised.

“Return your shopping cart in the parking lot… Someone’s got to do it. Why not you? Better yet, return yours, and also return a stray cart that you didn’t even use,” he said. “Now we are talking about next level ‘pretty niceness.’ And remember to wash your hands, because some gross person probably touched that cart before you.”

Carell also emphasized the importance of taking care of yourself, adding that he and his wife tell their children to remember the little things: Laugh when you have the opportunity, and cry when necessary.

“You’re not alone. As badly as you feel about the state of the world, your parents probably feel worse,” he said, pivoting seamlessly to a joke. “Use that. Take advantage of that. Now is the perfect time to exploit your parents’ guilt, to emotionally blackmail them. They might even let you live in their basement for an extra six months.”

The art of listening

Carell led the graduates in a mid-speech dance break to “That’s Not My Name” by Ting Tings, a move that brought great joy to the room as he danced with School of Communication Dean E. Patrick Johnson.

“I was a ‘Cherub’ in the Northwestern Summer High School Institute for Theatre, and it was there that I was first introduced to improvisation, when several Northwestern students gave us a master class. That inspired me to later move to Chicago and to pursue a career at The Second City,” he said.

The actor’s dive into improvisation as a college student is what he said taught him how to be a good listener.

“An improv scene goes nowhere unless everyone listens to one another,” Carell said. “The best way to see and understand another human being is to listen to them. To listen is to show respect.”

Carell concluded his speech by wishing all the dads in the crowd a Happy Father’s Day and sharing a few final thoughts to send the graduates on their way, reminding them it’s always worth it to be a good, considerate person.

“Don’t use chat GPT for personal emails. That’s just sad,” he teased. “Hold the door for people regardless of gender, age or political affiliation. Just dance sometimes and, lastly, you’ll never regret maintaining relationships with the people who went through such a defining experience with you. Keep in touch.”

Bryana Barry, graduate student speaker, echoed Carell’s sentiments.

“As we step into the next season of our lives, let’s carry this context with us,” she said. “Let’s stay connected to the people who shaped our time here, and let’s give second chances to the connections we might have missed. Wherever we go, let’s show our purple pride and honor the experiences and the people who brought us to this moment.”

Cheers for honorary degree recipients and exceptional teachers

Along with Carell, three distinguished individuals received honorary degrees from Northwestern at the ceremony: poet Toi Derricotte, Admiral (Ret.) Lisa Franchetti ’85, and pathbreaking biochemist and cell biologist Marc Kirschner ’66.

The University also bestowed honors upon four high school teachers who inspired graduating seniors and had a lasting impact on their lives with the Northwestern Schapiro Award. The award — formerly known as the Distinguished Secondary School Teacher Award — recognizes teachers from around the world who were nominated by members of the graduating class.